Sex without a bust-down label... Possible?

What do you do as a women when your super Horney and don't have a man? Do you just go and sleep with that next dude that says "aye girl" on the street? Do you go and use that $150 dollar toy you bought with your girl friends that always seems to give you some type of chemistry stir down there? If you do the first you are definitely considered a hoe, and with the toy you run the risk of your magic stick being the only thing that can pleasure you in the future. The deal is that women this day in age are screwed! We have limited options as it is when it comes to men, and then on top of that we are sexually frustrated. Or perhaps my close group of girlfriends and I are the only weirdos out here. (highly doubt it) The worst part of all of this is if you have this conversation with a man they always give you the advice of "hitting that", or "get some". But when it all boils down to it there is no way they would put a ring on it knowing that you were out there like that! So how do we remain sexually sain with being wifey material? Or is that shit just overrated these days?